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Try something kinky!

With the recent revolution in kinky literature such as ’50 Shades’ even the most vanilla types have been inspired to try something more adventurous. There is always something new to try in the bedroom even if you are a hardened kinkster and think you’ve seen it all before!

Spanking

Nothing feels naughtier that being told you’ve been very bad and being spanked for it. The sensation of being spanked can be highly erotic and the more your practice the better it becomes. Leaving a rosey pink glow on your cheeks will get you really hot all over! Use just your hand or use a flogger or paddle.

Sex Toys

There are plenty of toys you can add to your sessions, for both men and women. Don’t be shy! Your partner will be very impressed if you suggest using one of these and you shouldn’t feel intimidated – they are there to enhance your pleasure not replace you. There is always something new on the market to try – vibrators, dildos, magic wands, butt plugs, all pulsing and vibrating, with so many speeds and settings they will blow your mind.

Bondage

First decide who’s going to be in charge and then make sure you have a ‘safe’ word for the submissive to use if it becomes too much. Bondage can be something as simple as holding your lover’s arms or wrists down during sex. Or use a blindfold and some scarves to tie your lover to the bed or a chair. More hardcore scenarios can include gags, handcuffs or rope. It all depends on how extreme you want to go.

Roleplay

Roleplaying gives you the freedom to be who ever you want to be. Find a scenario that really turns you on, and one that you are going to feel happy and confident in acting out. A bit of dressing up and arranging a few props in advance can really help you get in the mood. What about doctor and patient or teacher and pupil or stripper and customer? Or maybe something you’ve seen in a film.

Make a Film

Always wanted to be a porn star? Well most of us aren’t quite up to that performance but just the thought that every moment is being caught on camera can be very erotic, and watching yourself back afterwards can be extremely sexy, reliving the moment. Or why not pose for some sexy photos for each other, be the director and demand exactly what you want!

Outdoor Sex

Now the summer is here make the most of the warmer evenings, pick a quiet spot where you know you won’t be caught, or pick somewhere with the danger of being discovered. If you’re really brave maybe try a bit of dogging!

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Max B

Max B

Max is a regular contributor to several sexual discussion groups including Meet For Sex Today. He has a particular interest in all things kinky and hedonistic.

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